Alcohol Addiction And How To Manage It
I think my husband is addicted to pornography. I’ve told my lover that it makes me Porn Addiction and he’s said he’ll stop looking at it but he hasn’t. I’ve caught my lover many times with it downloaded on his computer or it left in the DVD player and I don’t know what to do. It makes me mad when I catch my lover just for the reason that he made the promise to me not to do it. It makes me not want to trust my lover because he keeps breaking his promise.
Now as I sit here typing this I feel I don’t really have anyone to turn to for help. I still feel 100% regretful and wish I could take back every moment from 72 hours ago. I have since called the person and apologized a million times over, but still no response. It all really depends on how much you know your significant other, how much you love my lover/her, but I would probably end up doing the same thing, however, leaving might be a bit too extreme and will possibly send them back to drugs.
My husband and I have been in an unofficial sort of friendship for years but only recently decided to Porn Addiction - we can’t help but leave around one another. We’ve loved each other for a long time, and now we really have each other for real. We should be up in the clouds. Unfortunately we’ve both been dealing with major issues as of late, plus we are both alcoholics.
I hope that he accepts thus I can alleviate some of my worrying. But still which direction should I turn? My parents don’t really seem to have any alleviating advice. Thus I think I’m going to try and phone ADAAC or a physiatrist. Can anyone out there relate as to such or at least perhaps off some guidelines and to which direction you may think I should head.
If you’re single, I would say as often as you can or want to. It’s still okay in a friendship, but if I do it too much I start to notice I’m not interested in sex as much, which can have an effect on the friendship.
I realized last year and have been Porn Addiction ever since. He’s hurting, and really down on herself as he’s been dealing with this and other life issues for lots of years. There are times he actually says he gives up and tries to do unhealthy things just on the off chance they’re unhealthy enough. He tells me he’s no good for me and all I can see is that he’s no good for herself, he’s very proud and brilliant so I can’t really say much to help my lover that he’ll listen to until he’s really down emotionally.