Do you want a more fulfilling sex life? If yes, then get into the outdoors A LOT more! Here’s the simple truth of it: there are elements in the outdoors that feed the sexual virility of men. I realize this sounds like a stretch to some people, so stay with me here, because to have an extraordinary sexual life with your spouse, wilderness adventure can be an absolutely key component.

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We, as people, didn’t evolve in office buildings. Of the last 200,000 years human beings have only been living in air-conditioned homes and heated office buildings for about 200 years. Before that most men in the world worked in fields as farmers or ranchers, and before that they hunted and battled in small groups before returning to their villages and their wives. And when they returned home, they were ready for intimacy (not just sex, but emotional intimacy as well.)

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John Gray (author of “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”) has spoken at length about how men tend to “rubber band” between needing space and wanting intimacy. And when women, who when they receive intimacy tend to just want more, don’t give the men that space, then the men quit choosing to come back for intimacy. When this happens, the natural rubber band pattern is broken, the man feels crowded and smothered, and the woman feels unloved. This pattern obviously doesn’t help their sexual life, and in many instances leads to divorce.

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And here’s the bottom line: to feel fully alive in life, a man needs (whether he knows it or not) to exercise the wild side of his personality. The part that wants to take risks, that wants adventure, that wants to hunt and fish, that wants to explore vast amounts open wilderness. Rock climbing, rafting, hunting, mountain climbing, mountain biking, and skiing are all excellent ways to achieve those things. And ladies, when he comes back, he’s most likely going to be in his natural pattern, and will likely want intimacy.

He doesn’t have to go out by himself. Going together to climb, ski, hike, bike, hunt, fish or do any sort of adventurous activity is a fantastic way to build connection. When my wife and I spend a weekend doing something really fun outdoors, we always come back much closer. It’s one of the healthiest things we can do for our intimacy. And maybe it’s on a guided tour, or with part of an outdoor club. Whatever and however you do it, the key is (as Nike says) JUST DO IT!

Strap on dildos are a bedroom sex toy used by both men and women. Straps ons are becoming more and more popular as they allow couples to experiment new love making techniques. This article will teach you the various ways in which strap on dildos can be used.

Strap on dildos are more of a kinky bedroom toy, and used by those with an open mind willing to try new and exciting thing in the bedroom. If you have an open mind, like to be creative in the bedroom, then you’re ready to experience the joys of strap ons.

Before we explore the different ways strap on dildos can be used, lets just recap what exactly a strap on is. A strap on dildo is a dildo that is attached by a hardness and worn around either his or hers waist. Different strap ons come with different features, for example some strap ons

• are specifically designed for men or women
• have vibrating attachments
• have additional features including butt plugs and clitoral attachments
• are coloured whereas others are more realistic looking

There are also different sized dildos that attach to the harness, so it’s a good idea to properly read the product description so you know exactly how big it is before you get it home!

Different ways strap on dildos can be used

Strap on dildos can be used in a variety of ways. They include:

• Females can give their female partner either vaginal or anal penetration with a strap on dildo;
• Women can use strap ons to give their male partner anal penetration;
• Men can use strap on dildos so their female partner can experience double penetration Depending on which position you’re having sex in, his real penis goes in either the vagina or anus, and the strap on goes in the other. For example in doggie style the real penis would go in the vagina and the strap on dildo would go in the anus, if having sex in the missionary position then this would be reversed.
• Men who have problems getting or sustaining an erection can use a strap on dildo so their partner is still able to experience penetrative sex. If he suffers from this problem, then he can start off having sex with his penis, and when he starts to loose his erection he can use the strap on dildo so satisfy his partner. While this does not benefit him as much, it still allows sex continue.

Benefits of using strap on dildos

The benefits of using strap on dildos are enormous? There are so many benefits of using strap on dildos. One of the primary benefits is it encourages couples to explore new things and even other sex toys in the bedroom. One of the things that leads to a healthy life is a healthy sex life. The other great benefit is strap on dildos are exciting for both partners.

For men, it is a completely thrilling experience when their girl takes them from behind and gives them anal sex. For women, its being in control and dominating their partner. Couples are able to explore dominatrix with strap on sex. During strap on sex, women can feel really empowered being in charge and controlling the pleasure and the thrusting, and men can really having little control and being at the whim of their partner. For lesbians, strap on sex means they are still able to enjoy penetrative sex, and they too can switch who is in charge.

The two main benefits of strap on dildos is it encourages couple to be very open in the bedroom, and this can then lead to more open communication and more fantasies being fulfilled.

A popular product is the plus size strap on.

Tips when starting out

• Have a positive attitude! When using strap on dildos its imperative to be ready to have a good laugh, and you also need lots of patience! The sensation of wearing a strap on dildo can be different, and being in a good frame of mind is going to help!
• Plenty of lube is crucial, especially if you’re going for anal penetration. Remember, the anus does not stretch like the vagina does so it will be a much more enjoyable experience if you make it easy on yourself and use plenty of lube – and keep applying the lube.
• Once you’ve got the harness comfortably fitted around your waist, start out slowly. Don’t go into any mad fast thrusts, just start slowly so both parties can get used to the strap on.
• If you’re a man using the strap on so your female partner can experience double penetration, then remember to be patient. It can take a few goes to get into the rhythm of coordinating your penis with the strap on! Have a sense of humor and if the rhythm doesn’t go to plan the first time, don’t give up – just keep practicing! Once you’ve mastered the rhythm you’re partner will be mesmerized in pleasure and you’ll feel like the king of the world as you’re in charge of this pleasure giving!
• Hygiene – remember to clean the strap on dildo before and after use. And never put the dildo from the anus into the vagina without thoroughly cleaning first – this is how bacteria is spread and infections are caught.

Strap on sex is amazing sex. The next step is to browse through the range of strap on dildos and find one that is perfect for you.

When you begin to research pheromone products keep in mind there are two types of people who want more information on them.

They are those who simply want to understand pheromones a little more and those who research pheromones for personal use. It’s the latter which has a bigger audience because products containing pheromones have become big business.

Marketing has taken the subject of pheromones to new heights in recent years and while there are many devotees who swear that their love lives have been enhanced by the use of pheromone-enhanced products, there are still many who view the topic with suspicion.

Is Pheromones Research Just A Scam?

Do pheromones work? Well, if we’re talking about whether they work for the animal and insect world then yes, we know they play an important role within these two worlds.

But are they effective within human interaction? This is where it starts to become a little clouded. Those who have taken the time and money to research pheromone products within the human sphere have produced some startling results.

The simple fact that marketing preys on the aspect that pheromones can determine whether people have an attraction for each other makes for stuff of science fiction but is it? There is little doubt we know that we’re attracting to some people and not others.

Whether by simply dabbing a little pheromone-enhanced cologne on our neck line or wrists can turn us into the most popular person in a nightclub or the best salesman in a car yard still draws plenty of debate.

Can We Learn From Fire Ants?

Take for example the situation with fire ants; once they smell the pheromones of their fellow fire ants, they become incredibly aggravated, and then as soon as any of them sense motion, they will attack.

Through research, there have been discoveries using the ants’ pheromones in order to create a sort of anti-pheromone, in that it creates a smell that causes the ants to calm down, and to not be so aggressive once they are initiated.

This is a fantastic creation, because fire ants can actually be deadly, but more so are just annoying, however with this discovery, there is now a way that can be used in order to make the ants calm down and not act so aggressively.

We can be convinced that pheromones work within the animal and insect world yet when it comes to applying similar logic to humans, the doubts immediately surface. Why is that? Hasn’t it been proven we possess something called a VNO(Vomeronasal Organ) which is capable of picking up chemical signals which then translates into attraction or non-attraction.

The best advice you can get when shopping for products laced with pheromones is don’t expect them to transform you into the sexual magnet you alwways wanted to be. Instead, if you view them as merely an aid in your sexual conquests then you’ll be less likely to suffer disappointment if they don’t produce the results you’re looking for.

That is, you need to combine effective communication and personality with their use. So, when you research pheromone products bear this in mind - it takes a little more than simply applying some cologne to draw the correct responses from the opposite sex.

I have found that marriages where the wives do not take date night and sex seriously

have less passion and fun. The couple starts to act like roommates, not lovers,

and this can go on for months.

And this is BAD for your marriage! Did I really have to tell you that?

Listen if you have kids and find it darn near impossible to get out, you may find

friends, family or a service such as www.Sittercity.com to help you out, once in a while.

Or trade babysitting with another couple that has children. If you

don’t have kids and you are not dedicating yourselves to at least a few hours for yourselves

for a night out, or at home you are doing your relationship harm.

Take a night or afternoon and rid yourself of the kids, the phone, bills or the

washing machine going.

Forget the, “the kids need me” routine.” They can live with out for a few hours.

You know who really needs you, the father of your children. What is really important

to your children is that, you maintain a relationship with their father. If money is a bit

of an issue it’s money well spent if it makes you and your husband feel alive, like your dating

again.

It doesn’t matter who does the planning as long as someone does it.

If your going out, ladies pull out the heels, the earings he bought you, a nice dress

and oh yeah use the razor and make-up. He’ll love it… Make more of an effort than you

usually do. Make the night special for you and him.

Now, if you got the kids out of the house or you do not have children and you

want to just stay in that’s fine too. Here are some indoor ideas;

*Order in but use your silver wear and plates. Turn on the music, off goes

the TV while your eating.

*Eat in Lingerie or have him wear his sexiest boxer -the ones with the hearts-

Oh stop he has them. HAHA.

*Take out your dinner candles. Start lighting the fire now.

* When your done slide in that sexy movie you rented.

*Give him a backrub or give each other one.

*No serious conversation keep it light and fun.

* Have fun enjoy just each other and keep it fun.

No discussions of work, kids or bills. Smile a lot, like when you were dating.

Do what ever you need to do to keep that date night alive and on a regular basis. Do

not have a sexless or sex starved marriage. It is not to late to rekindle those flames

between you and him.

Gina Gray
visit http://ourdatenight4women.com for more relationship advice

Can you go back? Would you go back? If you could ? Would you go back and do it all over?

School, Fraternity, Wife, Job, Career, Kids, House, Town, State, Pool, Dogs,

Spending Money, Saving Money, Traveling, Guitar, Dance, Comedy, Acting, Sports…..Well you get the idea.

If you could would you really go back and change things really go back and change significant substantial life changing life shaping decisions that you made as the person you were at the time and now get to(have to) live with the results?

Let me take this opportunity to give a shout out to Eddie Money (what do you mean who is Eddie Money?)

He sang the hit song I Wanna Go Back “and do it all over but I can’t go back I know”.

great Sax hook good tune.

Anyways Eddie apparently is re-releasing some hits and I Wanna Go Back is the title as well as a new Pinoit Wine release for charity(but I digress, that means I got sidetracked, fancy huh?)

So where was I? Oh yea Doing it all over.

Of course its not possible though people certainly give up what they have and chuck it.

They try to start over. They have what sometimes is called a mid-life crisis.

You know get divorced even get the new young wife sometimes even start a second family. Sometimes they pack up everything and move change jobs, careers, towns, states, cars, countries, get a boat and sail away….

You get the drift (boat drift get it? sorry). Well, The Chairman of the Board the one the only Francis Albert Sinatra also spoke or rather sang to this issue.

Anybody Come On Buehler Buehler?

No! How about My Way ever hear of it? Alright that’s the choice isn’t it? Living a life full of regret and yearning for the path not chosen verse owning your decisions owning your life the life that you lived the choices you made the results of those decisions heck the person that you are today.

You probably can tell my bias gotta love Sinatra’s My Way.
(Talk about owning your life and decisions).

You also have to agree with the Money Man You Can’t Go Back even if you want to.

So where does that leave us well how about living the life that you created? How about loving the wife that you married?
Raising the little ones that you helped create and are raising?

How about doing everything that you can to not only hang in there and live the life that has resulted from your choices?

Then why don’t you write a better middle and ending to your life

rather than looking to chuck it all? Why not make the next part of your life of your marriage a great love story?

That’s right re-kindle your love with your wife bring back the love bring back the spark

bring back the laughter, the love, the joy, the sex, the romance, the fun.

Write the happy ending to you and your wife’s love story. You can do it. She can do it.

You both deserve it Your family deserves it.

How? Make the next decision the next life shaping decision an investment in your own happiness your marriage your life.

Make it Your Way. How? Join Our Date Night.

You Won’t regret it.

Husband of Gina Gray

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Can It Be True? Cunnilingus?
Really? In response to the posting about the beneficial aspects of Fellatio
(see Fellatio Fun For Him a Lifesaver For You [posted previously] go to Our Date Night.com).

My wife and some of our women readers questioned not only the truthfulness of the claims that women who perform fellatio more often get Breast Cancer less frequently but they also claimed(without any scientific evidence mind you) that men who perform cunnilingus on their women get headaches less frequently than those men who do not.

Now I was a bit skeptical myself(but that’s just my nature) about this rather vague and unsubstantiated claim that performing cunnilingus(that’s performing oral sex on women, you did know that right? … Just checkin), Can somehow be a cure or even be linked to less incidence of the ubiquitous “Headache”.

So I wanted to know how did they come by these fantastic claims?

Where did they get their information? Was their even a study done?
What was the size of the sample group?

How often did the men have to perform oral sex on their partner for it to be of any significance in eliminating Headaches?

Did it eliminate all headaches or just certain types? What? No What?

Oh I get it that if men perform cunnilingus(successfully) on their woman the men

not only get less headaches they also get more oral sex themselves.
They also get more sex period.

They also get to come home to a happier woman.

So what you were saying is that men should learn how to satisfy their women orally

on a regular basis and their will be overwhelming benefits to them that will make any

claims of a cure for Cancer by virtue of Fellatio seem like an afterthought.

You know what they say happy woman makes for a happy man.

Join Gina Gray at Our Date Night and not only will you have less headaches

you will also find yourself benefiting from a re-newed satisfying love life with the person

you fell in love with.

Remember real men muff Dive(read it on a T-Shirt). Less Headaches huh?

Well what the Heck Gotta Go … down
Husband of Gina Gray

When you’re in the market to buy pheromone products it’s important to remember that not all pheromones products are created equal.

There is definitely a divide between some products and others and it’s a little disturbing to think that some products may not really be what they are being marketed as. So how do you give yourself the best chance to buy pheromones which can help you attract others into your life?

How To Buy Pheromones

Still the best way to review and research pheromones products is the online forums. What you get here is usually an honest assessment of whether a product was crap or whether it’s worth investing in.

Finding forums is as easy as going to your favorite search engine and typing in your search phrase. Or better still, you can use this neat little forum research tool http://www.omgili.com

It simply monitors thousands of forums online and you type in your search phrase and will be presented with a list of results. Try and find forums which are frequented regularly and have a large number of members.

Also, be careful not to be taken in by those just pushing their own barrow and promoting their own products. It happens but you’ll soon learn to to distinguish between legitimate answers and those of a marketing nature.

Established Pheromone Companies

This is another strong lead as to the legitimacy of pheromone products worth buying. When you buy pheromone products from established companies, those which have been in business for several years then at least you know they’re in this business for the long haul.

For a stronger recommendation, check to see whether the company manufactures it’s own pheromone products and more importantly, their research habits. If they have their own research facilities then this is a good sign that they are a committed company and serious about producing a quality product.

Again, for further clarification, go back to the forums and pose your questions if you’ve come across a company which meets the above criteria. Obviously, you cannot please everyone and there will be those with grievances but you need to take the response as a whole and weigh up the number of negatives against the positives.

The bottom line is you’re dealing with a product which despite the claims that pheromones do exist, there is still plenty of doubt about their validity in the human world and many who scoff at the suggestion there is an invisible chemical which has the ability to either attract or repel.

Whether you believe it or not, the fact is the pheromone product industry has grown to enormous levels. By following some of the steps in this article, you’ll at least give yourself a good chance to buy pheromone products products which are what they claim on the label.

So do pheromones exist? By now you’ve no doubt heard a lot about them and with most reaction being to there effectiveness in helping people attract others in the attraction stakes, then people’s interest is naturally going to be peaked.

But pheromones go much deeper than simply being used as an attractant for humans to portray an air of irresistibility to the opposite sex. In fact, it’s only been in the past couple of decades that pheromones were looked upon as a marketable product and savvy marketers have jumped on board the bandwagon in droves.

What Are Pheromones?

So the question of do pheromones exist and how important are they in our day-to-day interaction with each other? Well, in a nutshell, pheromones are chemicals emitted and picked up by an organ called the VNO(Vomeronasal Organ). They basically convey a message to the opposite or same sex and try to trigger a response.

That’s basically it in a nutshell but the burning question still being asked is do they really exist? Are pheromones real? Well, we know they are an important aspect of the animal and insect world with pheromones not only used to attract a mate but to warn of danger and as a means of capturing prey.

So if humans are considered part of the animal world then why would anyone doubt that they would play a major role in our daily interaction with each other?

In human terms, pheromones are still a relatively new experience and were only defined in 1959. Research since them has increased exponentially and it wasn’t until 1986 when Dr. Winifred Cutler actually confirmed their existence through scientific research.

Dr. Cutler has been instrumental in us knowing and learning more about pheromones in our behavioral patterns and through the Athena Institute, she was able to establish a class of pheromones known as sex-attractant pheromones. And let’s be realistic, as human beings, this is what we’re really interested in.

Sex Pheromones

Pheromones on the market today come in packaged cologne or perfume containers. Bear in mind you cannot see them so when shopping for pheromones, it’s important to tread wearily and stick with established and well known merchants and manufacturers.

Some still claim they’re a scam and the fact that nothing is yet written in stone as to their actual existence continues to prompt people to ask…do pheromones exist?

Whether you believe in them or not the evidence and research which continues to produce strong evidence they actually do exist, is just about enough for believers to declare their support for the pheromone products on the market today.

If you have been considering different ways to spice up your love life, lingerie can usually serve as a exciting addition to any relationship. Wearing sexy lingerie will usually provide a woman with that additional boost of self-confidence that may well be needed to consider herself beautiful and sexy for her mate. Unfortunately, not all types of lingerie look spectacular on every body type. Nonetheless, one of the undergarment types that will almost always look erotic on women ranging from petite to full figured, is baby doll lingerie.

If you’re unfamiliar with baby dolls, it is a style of forgiving undergarment in that it offers support for the breasts and is generally loose fitting around the tummy area and is similar to a loosely worn dress that flows to the hips. The two most popular types of baby doll lingerie are the open front, and the closed front. The open front style separates to the sides revealing the midsection, while the closed front looks like commonly worn maternity dresses, but sheerer and shorter than the typical maternity outfit.

Styles of Babydoll Lingerie

There are numerous different babydoll styles that women can now consider. If you tend to be a rather shy woman, you might prefer wearing a babydoll that has a closed front and isn’t see-through with a matching full-back panty. For the more daring, a short, open front babydoll made of a sheer mesh or net material may be what you’re looking for. Many come in a peek-a-boo style with strings that can be untied to reveal the breasts. They also generally come with matching full-back, g-string, thong or crotchless panties. If you are a bit on the reserved side, you can accessorize the garment with a gown that will allow you to reveal only what you want. Most importantly, you want to feel relaxed in any style of undergarment that you wear, so you have to make certain that you are not feeling insecure by wearing a garment that is overly revealing. If that’s the situation, wear something less revealing the first time, then slowly progress into the more provocative and revealing fashions as your comfort level increases. It won’t be long before you are truly loving it and bringing out the beast in your partner.

Babydolls are now offered in a wide variety of various materials. Popular materials include satin, lace, lycra, denim, mesh, chiffon, leather, faux leather, and vinyl. The vinyl fabric is also commonly referred to as PVC, patent leather, or wet look because of its glossy appearance.

Where to Look for Baby Dolls

Baby doll lingerie is currently one of the more fashionable styles of sexy undergarments. They can generally be found in the lingerie or undergarments section of most department stores, in adult stores, or on many websites on the Web. A great place to find these sites is by browsing the listings found in a lingerie directory. Most styles of babydolls are currently sold in both misses and plus sizes, so finding the ideal fit shouldn’t be concern. So the days of a woman being too petite or too big to wear erotic lingerie are in the past as new styles are being manufactured to fit all women’s shapes and figures. You can even come across them in maternity stores. There is positively no excuse why any woman can not add a little spark to their relationship by putting on a sexy baby doll outfit in the bedroom.

So you are about to jump on the pheromones bandwagon but don’t know how to select the best product. It’s a common problem and the truth is, many people simply hear the buzz about pheromones and rush online to buy them without really understanding what they are or what they do.

In this human pheromones review, we’ll guide you in the right direction to choosing and buying the best pheromones; those which are most likely to give you the best results.

Most Popular Pheromones

This is a great place to start. Search for the most popular pheromones from the start and you should be close to the mark. However, bear in mind some of the more popular pheromones brands on the market have got there through great marketing.

There may be better products you’ll overlook created by true pheromone enthusiasts and experts yet you don’t hear about them simply because they lack any oomph in their marketing.

Two of the best known and most popular pheromone products on the market are Athena and Pherlure. Both have a large following with Athena having been around for a long time. In fact, if you want to do some research, read about the creator of Athena, Dr. Winifred Cutler and this could have a strong bearing on swaying your preferences their way.

Nevertheless, Pherlure has a strong following and are certainly worth considering if you get into having to make a decision between the two.

The above suggestions are only that and it’s advised you use plenty of your own discretion when conducting a human pheromones review. We’ve mentioned many times on this site that one of the best places to start when doing a pheromones review are the forums dedicated to pheromones.

If you’re wondering how to find pheromone forums use omgili.com which monitors just about every forum online. Just enter the term pheromones and search. Forums are are great place to ask for opinions because there is never any shortage of members willing to give it.

If you come across a product you’re not sure about and it’s getting good pheromones reviews you can “bet your your bottom dollar” there’s somebody on a forum who does know about it. One thing to be aware of though with forums is to distinguish between those giving genuine advice and those who are simply “pushing their own barrow.”

Other than that, your own research should include the length of time a company has been in business but more importantly, whether they research and manufacture their own products. Also, check their site for a newsletter subscribe feature as this is an indication they plan to be around for a long time.

Another important human pheromones review factor is to check a company’s contact details. Email addresses are fine but phone contact is better.