Moving Guide: Moving Children for the First Time without the Trouble

Moving Guide: Moving Children for the First Time without the Trouble

Relocating causes stress for many people but is especially true with your children. They will certainly require some assistance when they are moving out after living at home all their life.

So what is the best way to help them without overwhelming them?

As their parent, it’s your job to assist them with this transition. In order to properly do this, you need to have a lot of patience, which is a thing that you’ve most likely done all their life.

It is a necessity to have patience. It’s normal for your child to be nervous because of the size and scale of this big change in their world. Moving day and the days before it can be an emotional roller coaster for them, and it’s not necessary to take anything they say to heart during this timeframe. In most cases your child is probably just on edge because of the stress and size of the relocation in their life.

The most effective approach you can take is to try and remind them that everything they are worried about will be worked out. Hopefully this calms them down.

Reassuring them that you’ll always be there and are as close as their phone or email should help put them at ease. Your child is probably thinking about things not going right and they usually just needs reassurance that things will happen the way they’re meant to.

Being organized is helpful during this time. You may utilize a moving checklist that includes all of the supplies you need such as boxes, décor for their new home, and possibly even a housewarming gesture.

 

 

Making sure the priorities are in place will lower stress levels for both of you on the moving day.

These moving tips and tricks can serve was your moving guide to help you keep everything calm on moving day. Even though you will be sad to see them go, it’s an important opportunity for you to have more independence too after they move out. One thing is for sure, that this transition will be a good experience for you and your child.

Just in case the relocation causes stress for you as well, don’t forget that they are as close as your email or a telephone call. Don’t phone or email them too much as you might turn them off to you, but it is important to let them know how much you care every once and awhile.

They do appreciate this effort even though it may seem like they don’t want to talk sometimes.

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Why technology isn’t good for our stress levels.

It has been found out that being online can make someone depressed.

Nowadays everyone is on the internet, especially social media. There are people that cannot live without social media. Many surveys have shown that internet addicts have a positive correlation with the number of hours on the web and their feelings for sadness, isolation, depression, and alienation. The internet doubles the chances of a person being depressed.

When you communicate in person you are saying what you truly feel right at that moment. When you socialize over phone there is a part of sarcasm or sincerity that it hidden within. It has been found that when you have a lot of friends on facebook that you will be even sadder. Your stress level will be really really high. You will have issues with your real life relationships. So if you really care about social media you should consider holding back a little bit. Stop living life through your phone and start living it in front of you face. Start talking and meeting new people and new opportunities.

 

 

The internet has given us the ability to jump from task to task. We makes these jumps about every two minutes. Muli-tasking refers to getting caught in mental doldrums between interrupting and restarting. Multi-tasking, in a sense, can reduce one’s ability to pay attention at all. This reduces the ability to truly think critically and problem solve. Your ability to recall memories starts to deteriorate, studies have shown. You IQ also reduces. The more you mulit-task the more you are harming your brain. The greater the cognitive damage becomes and the harder it is for you to recover. The mostly begins in childhood.

The internet continues to take over your brain. It needs to be handy for you at all times. Social media sites are the setting standard for digital nicotine. They do the right things to get the users to come back every day. It makes you want to do it again and again, until you do not even know what hit you. However, you will do everything in your power to feel that way one more time. This is called addiction.

It might be as damaging as hard core drugs, but it does damage the memory part to your brain. So maybe limit your time online may be better.

The keyword here is moderation.

Check this: http://www.webmd.com/depression/news/20100802/internet-overuse-may-cause-depression

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9 Most Common Dreams and There Meaning

9 Most Common Dreams and There Meaning

Dreams about flying, showing up to school or work with no pants, and being chased occur so often that they are almost clichéd.

Despite how normal they seem, these dreams may be your mind’s way of sending you a message. The following dream interpretations may help enlighten you on what message your subconscious is trying to relay.

 

Being Chased
The sensation of being chased while dreaming could mean that you feel threatened of what is chasing you. It is important to know who or what is chasing you and how that could be symbolic to your life.

If you are being chased but can’t run as fast as you want, this could represent the lack the self-esteem or confidence needed to achieve your goals.

 

Death
There are several ways death can be present in a dream. It may represent a symbolic end or “death” to something, but it does not by any means signify an actual imminent death. To dream you have died could represent that you are experiencing major changes in your life.

By contrast, it may also be a symbolic meaning that a person or relationship is depressing or hindering you. Dreaming of a loved one dying means they provide a quality you lack in your relationships. It may also signify that person is no longer a part of your life.

 

Falling
Feeling frightened while falling in your dream suggests that you have no support or control over a problem in your life.

You may be feeling disappointed for not achieving your goals. Falling backwards in your dream symbolizes you have stopped yourself from making a bad decision or that you are not ready for something.

If you have no fear or anxiety while falling, this indicates that you will easily push through your struggles.

 

Nudity

Dreaming that you are naked suggests you are afraid of being exposed. Trying to cover up yourself in the dream could mean that you are attempting to hide your vulnerability.

 

 

Flying

The meaning behind a dream where you are flying could mean various things depending on the height, speed, and direction. To dream about peacefully gliding through the air represents a sense of control and direction in your waking life.

Being capable of flying represents liberty and freedom which promises an escape from external stressors and struggles. While flying in your dreams is usually a pleasant experience, having anxiety while flying implies that you fear change.

Tests/ Testing

Taking a test in a dream could relate to being evaluated on something in your life. Similar to real life, not knowing the answers might make you feel nervous.

You are most likely worried about an upcoming interview or exam which you feel unprepared for and incompetent. Lacking confidence and having a fear or failure is often the root to most test-taking dreams.

Falling Teeth

The implication of this common dream is often debated. Falling teeth may be affiliated with vanity, communication, embarrassment, powerlessness, health, death, money, or deception.

Whichever topic most applies to your life is something you would know best. There are various theories and legends that suggest what this dream could mean.

Researchers have found that this dream occurs more frequently the older you get, which could suggest fear and anxiety about aging.

Cheating

Dreams about cheating are often so alarming and discomforting that you continue to feel betrayed by your partner when you wake up. Despite the vividness of the dream, it doesn’t necessarily mean your partner is cheating on you.

Other problems such as feeling neglected or self-conscious in your relationship often lead to these dreams. Having trust issues or a fear of abandonment also factor into why this dream occurs. Sometimes, although it is very seldom, this dream might reveal that your partner is actually cheating on you and your subconscious is communicating the hints and indications it has picked up on.

Being the cheater in such dream could refer to another area in the relationship where you could be mentally or emotionally “cheating”. It does not automatically mean that you are seeking another partner or relationship, however if could signify the desire for something that you feel is missing in your relationship.

Dreams are so mysterious and enigmatic that it is difficult to understand their purpose. While finding deep significance in dreams is interesting, it is important to remember how little information there is on dreams and the subconscious.

We must keep in mind that our dreams are, in fact, just dreams and we mustn’t put too much emphasis on them.

 

What have you been dreaming about lately ?

 

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