Three Things YOU Can Do Today To Be The COOL Woman Men Adore

Have you ever been [spin[ talking to| chatting with [/spin] a man who is talking about a girl he knows or is attracted to – and he tells you she is a “cool girl” – or some other term that basically means the same thing? You might not have really picked up on it, or thought anything about it. According to Christian Carter in his Catch Him and Keep Him eBook, though, calling a girl cool is really great compliment from a man.

A “cool” lady, to a man, is a lady that really resonates with him – a lady who really understands social and emotional circumstances and dynamics as they relate to MEN. These girls are incredibly attractive to men, because being around a lady like this is FUN for a man – it’s a good experience. “Cool” girls exude positive energy but more importantly, do not project the negative emotions that many girls can project.

One of the problems with men is that often times, they really take any kind of lady that they do not like and put them all in one big mental pile. So, if he had a bad experience with Jane, and then Jill does something that reminds him of Jane, Jill is guilty by association. This is one of the reasons that some men have such a difficult time finding a lady they really like and can relate to.

Ok – so what are some dating tips that will help YOU be the COOL girl? Here are some of the things you can do (you can find more in Christian Carter’s eBook Catch Him and Keep Him around page 138 and 139).

First – the cool girls do not always have to be in control of the situation. These girls can go with the flow and allow the men to direct the situation (which is a salve to their alpha-male souls). Seriously – men dig this because they WANT to be in charge – and they feel much more attracted to a lady when she lets him be who HE WANTS to be. That is huge for a man.

Second –these girls do not makes scenes, talk about things that are negative or complain. Whatever happens, these girls can roll with the punches and slough it off. These girls do not make a scene getting pissy when they are mad about something, being catty and trying to start fights or whatever. Some of you might even be offended by that statement, but as a lady, I have seen it and I am SURE you have too. Don’t do things like that – men hate it, and so do mature adults.

Third – the COOL girl, according to Christian Carter, will be COMPLETE WITH HERSELF. She will have other things to do and does not feel insecure if she does not have a date or even a friend to hang out with on a Friday night. She has her own interests. Even when she HAS a boyfriend or a date – she is perfectly happy to do her own thing and let her boyfriend or date do his as well. That’s not to say that she won’t go to a Steelers game because he wants to. But that does mean that if you are both sitting at home and he is watching the Steelers game and you are bored to tears – a cool girl will say to herself, “Hey – I don’t care about football – let’s go do something fun for me while HE has his own fun watching the game!” Then go read a book, finish a project, call a friend, whatever it is that makes YOU happy.

So – these are three of the tips that Christian Carter recommends in his Catch Him and Keep Him eBook. There are quite a few more in there, and I encourage you to read it if you have not. It is the best tool I have found to offer me an advantage in the dating world and really turn my OWN love-life around. Remember – study the COOL GIRL – once you get it – YOU will BE the cool girl!