Are You In A Sexless Sex Starved Marriage?

I have found that marriages where the wives do not take date night and sex seriously

have less passion and fun. The couple starts to act like roommates, not lovers,

and this can go on for months.

And this is BAD for your marriage! Did I really have to tell you that?

Listen if you have kids and find it darn near impossible to get out, you may find

friends, family or a service such as www.Sittercity.com to help you out, once in a while.

Or trade babysitting with another couple that has children. If you

don’t have kids and you are not dedicating yourselves to at least a few hours for yourselves

for a night out, or at home you are doing your relationship harm.

Take a night or afternoon and rid yourself of the kids, the phone, bills or the

washing machine going.

Forget the, “the kids need me” routine.” They can live with out for a few hours.

You know who really needs you, the father of your children. What is really important

to your children is that, you maintain a relationship with their father. If money is a bit

of an issue it’s money well spent if it makes you and your husband feel alive, like your dating

again.

It doesn’t matter who does the planning as long as someone does it.

If your going out, ladies pull out the heels, the earings he bought you, a nice dress

and oh yeah use the razor and make-up. He’ll love it… Make more of an effort than you

usually do. Make the night special for you and him.

Now, if you got the kids out of the house or you do not have children and you

want to just stay in that’s fine too. Here are some indoor ideas;

*Order in but use your silver wear and plates. Turn on the music, off goes

the TV while your eating.

*Eat in Lingerie or have him wear his sexiest boxer -the ones with the hearts-

Oh stop he has them. HAHA.

*Take out your dinner candles. Start lighting the fire now.

* When your done slide in that sexy movie you rented.

*Give him a backrub or give each other one.

*No serious conversation keep it light and fun.

* Have fun enjoy just each other and keep it fun.

No discussions of work, kids or bills. Smile a lot, like when you were dating.

Do what ever you need to do to keep that date night alive and on a regular basis. Do

not have a sexless or sex starved marriage. It is not to late to rekindle those flames

between you and him.

Gina Gray
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