I Want To Go Back(you Can’t Go Back) So Then What?

Can you go back? Would you go back? If you could ? Would you go back and do it all over?

School, Fraternity, Wife, Job, Career, Kids, House, Town, State, Pool, Dogs,

Spending Money, Saving Money, Traveling, Guitar, Dance, Comedy, Acting, Sports…..Well you get the idea.

If you could would you really go back and change things really go back and change significant substantial life changing life shaping decisions that you made as the person you were at the time and now get to(have to) live with the results?

Let me take this opportunity to give a shout out to Eddie Money (what do you mean who is Eddie Money?)

He sang the hit song I Wanna Go Back “and do it all over but I can’t go back I know”.

great Sax hook good tune.

Anyways Eddie apparently is re-releasing some hits and I Wanna Go Back is the title as well as a new Pinoit Wine release for charity(but I digress, that means I got sidetracked, fancy huh?)

So where was I? Oh yea Doing it all over.

Of course its not possible though people certainly give up what they have and chuck it.

They try to start over. They have what sometimes is called a mid-life crisis.

You know get divorced even get the new young wife sometimes even start a second family. Sometimes they pack up everything and move change jobs, careers, towns, states, cars, countries, get a boat and sail away….

You get the drift (boat drift get it? sorry). Well, The Chairman of the Board the one the only Francis Albert Sinatra also spoke or rather sang to this issue.

Anybody Come On Buehler Buehler?

No! How about My Way ever hear of it? Alright that’s the choice isn’t it? Living a life full of regret and yearning for the path not chosen verse owning your decisions owning your life the life that you lived the choices you made the results of those decisions heck the person that you are today.

You probably can tell my bias gotta love Sinatra’s My Way.
(Talk about owning your life and decisions).

You also have to agree with the Money Man You Can’t Go Back even if you want to.

So where does that leave us well how about living the life that you created? How about loving the wife that you married?
Raising the little ones that you helped create and are raising?

How about doing everything that you can to not only hang in there and live the life that has resulted from your choices?

Then why don’t you write a better middle and ending to your life

rather than looking to chuck it all? Why not make the next part of your life of your marriage a great love story?

That’s right re-kindle your love with your wife bring back the love bring back the spark

bring back the laughter, the love, the joy, the sex, the romance, the fun.

Write the happy ending to you and your wife’s love story. You can do it. She can do it.

You both deserve it Your family deserves it.

How? Make the next decision the next life shaping decision an investment in your own happiness your marriage your life.

Make it Your Way. How? Join Our Date Night.

You Won’t regret it.

Husband of Gina Gray

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