The Wonders Of Strap On Dildos

Strap on dildos are kinky sex toys used by both men and women. They are becoming more and more popular with both men and women, as they offer new thrills for both partners in the bedroom. Strap on sex opens new avenues in the bedroom, they put the fire back into relationships and offer a totally new experience.

What is a strap on dildo? A strap on dildo is exactly that, a dildo that is strapped on and held in place with a harness. A strap on dildo serves multiple purposes:

• They can be used by women to give their female partner penetration – in either the vagina or anus.

• Women can wear strap ons to give anal penetration to their male partner.

• The can be used by men so his female partner can experience double penetration; ie the real penis goes in either the vagina or anus, and the strap on goes in the other orifice – this depends on what position you are in. For example if it is doggie style, the strap on would go in the anus, and his real penis would go in her vagina. If she was on her back, the strap on would go in her vagina, and his real penis would go in the anus.

By using strap ons couples explore new avenues in the bedroom which leads better sex lives as new thrills are being experienced by both men and women. Strap on dildos allow women to be in charge and dominate their husband – this is one of the big turn ons for both men and women when using strap ons. Men like being at the whim of their female partner and women like being in charge and dominating their partner’s pleasure – a role reversal. By experimenting with strap on dildos it can encourage open communication about each partner’s fetishes and fantasies and encourage trying other new things in the bedroom.

For lesbians, strap on dildos are very popular as it means they are still able to experience the pleasure of penetrative sex. For female partners strap on sex allows also role playing.

Strap on dildos are also excellent sex toys for men to use if they have problems getting or sustaining an erection. In this case, men can use a strap on dildo so their partner can still experience penetration.

It can take practise getting into the rhythm of using strap on dildos – especially if the purpose for using the strap on is to experience double penetration! It takes practise coordinating the thrusting of the strap on and real penis – but once the coordination is mastered both partners experience the benefits!

It is thrilling for not just the women receiving double the pleasure, but it is thrilling for the man as well who is in power and giving this double pleasure. It might take some time too for the woman to get used to the feeling of double penetration as well – having both the vagina and anus receiving pleasure can be overwhelming and might take some getting used to!

When starting out with strap on sex it is also good to use lube – and plenty of it, especially if the strap on is going in the anus. Also, remember to be patient. If you can’t get the rhythm first time round, be patient and keep trying. Women using the strap on might also feel overwhelmed being in charge. Once you’ve mastered the strap on though you’ll never turn back – strap on sex puts a new meaning on pleasure in the bedroom!

After experimenting with strap on dildo, it can lead to more experimenting with other sex toys like an anal dildo. Strap on sex opens a world of opportunities in the bedroom, and can get you thinking about other scenarios you’d like to try, or other fantasies you might want fulfilled!